Native speakers learn English years before they learn to spell it. By the time they write, the language is stored as sound, so their mistakes cluster in two places: where two spellings share one pronunciation (its and it’s, should’ve and “should of”), and where a rule drilled at school gets applied too widely (“between you and I”, “whom” as a subject).
That makes this list useful in two ways if English is not your first language. You are less likely to make some of these slips, because you learned its from a page rather than from your parents — but you will meet them constantly in emails and online, and it helps to know which version is standard. And several “rules” you may have been taught are really style preferences. Knowing the difference stops you from correcting things that were never wrong.
Each section says plainly whether the issue is an error in any standard English, or a choice between informal and formal usage.
It’s vs. its (and whose, your, their)
English marks possession with ’s: the company’s logo, Sarah’s laptop. So when a writer wants “belonging to it”, it’s looks right. It isn’t. Possessive pronouns never take an apostrophe — his, hers, ours, yours, theirs, whose and its.
Often written: The company changed it’s logo.
Standard: The company changed its logo.
It’s only ever means it is or it has. That gives you a reliable test: expand the word. “The company changed it is logo” is nonsense, so you need its. “It has been a long week” works, so it’s is right. The same expansion sorts out who’s/whose (“Who is laptop is this?” fails → Whose), you’re/your and they’re/their. The form its’ does not exist.
Want more practice? Try the its vs. it’s exercises.
Apostrophes in plain plurals
British writers call this the greengrocer’s apostrophe, after hand-written market signs like “Banana’s 2 for £1”. It is the mirror image of mistake 1: the writer knows that an s at the end of a word sometimes needs an apostrophe, and adds one to an ordinary plural.
Often written: We’re having the Smith’s over. Prices rose in the 1990’s. Read the FAQ’s.
Standard: We’re having the Smiths over. Prices rose in the 1990s. Read the FAQs.
A plural takes no apostrophe. An apostrophe appears only when the plural also owns something, and then it goes after the s: the Smiths’ house. Names already ending in s add -es for the plural: the Joneses, the Joneses’ car. For decades and abbreviations, current American and British style guides write 1990s and FAQs.
The one accepted exception is single lowercase letters, where the apostrophe prevents a misreading: mind your p’s and q’s, dot the i’s.
Affect vs. effect
In ordinary speech the first vowel of both words is reduced to a quick, unclear sound, so affect and effect often sound the same. Writers then pick the spelling they see more often, which is usually effect.
Often written: The new policy will effect team productivity.
Edited English: The new policy will affect team productivity.
For everyday writing, two facts cover almost every sentence: affect is a verb meaning “influence”, and effect is a noun meaning “result”. A quick check is substitution: if influence or alter fits, write affect; if result fits, write effect. Adjust the ending as you test — affected becomes altered, effects becomes results.
Two genuine uses break the pattern, which is why memory tricks such as “affect = verb, effect = noun” are only a starting point:
- Effect as a verb means “bring about”. The new director effected several changes means she made them happen. The new director affected several changes would mean she altered changes that already existed. The phrase you will meet most is to effect change.
- Affect as a noun is a psychology term for visible emotion: the patient showed flat affect. Outside clinical writing you are unlikely to need it.
Other sound-alike pairs worth a second look
| Pair | Difference | Example |
|---|---|---|
| complement / compliment | complement = complete or go well with; compliment = praise | The sauce complements the fish. She complimented the chef. |
| principal / principle | principal = main, head of a school, a sum of money; principle = a rule or belief | The principal reason was cost. It’s a matter of principle. |
| lose / loose | lose = fail to keep (verb); loose = not tight (adjective) | Don’t lose the key. The screw is loose. |
| farther / further | both work for distance; only further means “more” or “additional” | Two miles farther/further on. We need further information. |
Then vs. than
In connected speech both words shrink to the same weak syllable, so “better then before” and “more then enough” turn up even in published writing. The two words do different jobs:
- Then is about time or sequence (We checked the data, then sent the report) or means “in that case” (If the server is down, then nothing will load).
- Than introduces a comparison: faster than, more than, rather than, other than, less than.
Often written: The new version is much faster then the old one.
Standard: The new version is much faster than the old one.
A practical check: if the word follows a comparative (more, less, better, rather, other, or any -er adjective), it is than.
“Should of” and other phrases written by ear
Should’ve, could’ve and would’ve sound exactly like “should of”, “could of” and “would of”. The of spelling is an error in every variety of standard English. The full form is a modal verb plus have plus a past participle.
Often written: I should of checked the figures. If I had of known, I would of called.
Standard: I should have (should’ve) checked the figures. If I had known, I would have called.
Note the second fix: “had of known” is not “had have known” — the extra word simply goes. If I had known is all you need.
Fixed phrases get rebuilt by ear in the same way. The writer hears a phrase, cannot see its logic, and substitutes words that seem to make sense. Linguists call these substitutions eggcorns, after a reported case of acorn written as “egg corn”.
| Often written | Established form | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| for all intensive purposes | for all intents and purposes | in every practical sense |
| nip it in the butt | nip it in the bud | stop a problem early (like pinching off a bud before it flowers) |
| one in the same | one and the same | identical |
| case and point | case in point | an example that proves what you just said |
| statue of limitations | statute of limitations | a law setting a time limit; a statute is a law, a statue is a sculpture |
| per say | per se | in itself (Latin) |
What about “I could care less”?
This one is often listed with the eggcorns, but it is a different case. Nobody misheard a word: I could care less is a common informal American idiom with the same meaning as I couldn’t care less, and dictionaries such as Cambridge record it that way. Read literally it seems to say the opposite, which is why it irritates some readers; the usual explanations are sarcasm or a negative that dropped out in speech, and nobody knows for certain.
The practical advice is simple. In casual American conversation it is normal. In formal writing, and for British or international readers, use I couldn’t care less, which is accepted everywhere and is hard to misread.
“Between you and I” and “John and myself”
Children say “Me and Sam went to the park” and are corrected: “Sam and I went.” The lesson many people keep is “and me sounds wrong, and I sounds educated”, so they use I after and even where an object is needed. Linguists call this hypercorrection. It is an old habit — between you and I even appears in Shakespeare’s The Merchant of Venice — but modern edited English treats it as an error.
Often written: Between you and I, the meeting was a waste of time. Please send the file to Anna and I.
Edited English: Between you and me, the meeting was a waste of time. Please send the file to Anna and me.
The test is to remove the other person. Nobody writes “send the file to I”, so it must be to Anna and me. After a preposition (between, for, with, to, from) the pronoun takes its object form: me, him, her, us, them.
The same nervousness produces myself as a polite-sounding replacement: “Please contact Sarah or myself.” Myself is for when the subject acts on itself (I hurt myself) or for emphasis (I wrote it myself). As a plain object, write me: Please contact Sarah or me.
Who vs. whom
The textbook rule: who is a subject (Who called?), whom is an object (Whom did you call?). In practice, everyday English uses who for both, and Who did you invite? is standard, not a mistake. You do not need to “fix” it.
Whom is still expected in two places: directly after a preposition (To whom it may concern, the manager with whom I spoke) and in very formal documents. If you prefer to avoid it, you can usually move the preposition: the manager I spoke with.
The mistake careful readers do notice runs the other way: whom used where a subject is needed, because the writer is trying to sound formal.
Often written: We hired the candidate whom we believed was the strongest.
Edited English: We hired the candidate who we believed was the strongest.
The trap is the inserted clause we believed. Take it out and test the pronoun inside its own clause with he/him: “he was the strongest”, not “him was the strongest” — so who. The same test fixes “Whom shall I say is calling?” (he is calling → Who) and whoever/whomever: Give the badge to whoever needs it, because whoever is the subject of needs.
Fewer vs. less
The rule taught in schools: fewer with plural count nouns (fewer emails), less with uncountable nouns (less time). This is a usage convention rather than a rule of English grammar — less with plurals has been used for centuries, and the strict version is usually traced to an 18th-century usage writer who offered it as his own preference. But it is the convention editors apply, so in formal writing follow it.
Often written: We received less applications than last year.
Formal writing: We received fewer applications than last year.
Do not over-apply it, though. Less is standard with amounts of time, money, distance, weight and age, because you are thinking of a quantity rather than counting units: less than ten minutes, less than $500, less than 5 km, children less than two years old. It is also idiomatic in one less thing to worry about. The supermarket sign “10 items or less” is everywhere and understood by everyone; in a report you would write fewer.
A related question that divides writers is whether none takes a singular or plural verb — see None Is or None Are?
Lay vs. lie
Two verbs, one of which uses the other’s base form as its past tense. Lay means to put something down and always has an object. Lie means to be in a flat position and never has one. The collision comes in the past tense of lie, which is lay.
| Verb | Meaning | Present | Past | Past participle |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| lay | put something down (needs an object) | lay | laid | laid |
| lie | be or get into a flat position (no object) | lie | lay | lain |
| lie | say something untrue | lie | lied | lied |
Often written: I’m going to lay down for an hour. Yesterday I laid in bed until noon.
Edited English: I’m going to lie down for an hour. Yesterday I lay in bed until noon.
“Lay down” for “lie down” is extremely common in casual speech, especially in American English, and most listeners will not notice it. In writing that will be edited, keep them apart. Ask: is something being put down? If yes, lay/laid. If not, lie/lay/lain.
Dangling modifiers
An opening phrase such as After reviewing your application or Walking to the station has no subject of its own. English readers attach it to the subject of the main clause that follows. If that subject is not the person doing the action, the sentence says something you did not mean.
Often written: After reviewing your application, you have been shortlisted for interview.
Edited English: After reviewing your application, we have shortlisted you for interview.
The first version says you reviewed your own application. The fix is to make the doer the subject, or to give the opening phrase its own subject: After we reviewed your application, you were shortlisted. Form letters are full of these, because the writer is thinking about the reader and the sentence drifts to you.
A handful of opening words work as fixed connectors and do not need to match the subject: considering, given, assuming, judging by, generally speaking. “Considering the cost, the plan is reasonable” is fine.
Check yourself: ten questions
One question for each section above. Each has exactly one answer that edited English would accept.
Ten-question check
Answer key and explanations
1. The committee published ___ report on Friday.
B. its
Possessive pronouns never take an apostrophe. Expand it's to 'it is': 'published it is report' makes no sense, so the answer is its. The form its' does not exist.
2. Which market sign is punctuated correctly?
C. Fresh apples, 3 for $2
This is a plain plural: nothing belongs to the apples, so no apostrophe is needed.
3. The budget cuts had a serious ___ on staff morale.
B. effect
After 'a serious' you need a noun meaning 'result', so the answer is effect. ('Result' fits; 'influence' as a verb would not.)
4. Which sentence is correct?
B. The new laptop is lighter than the old one.
A comparison ('lighter') is followed by than. Then is for time or sequence.
5. I ___ checked the figures before sending them.
B. should have
The pattern is modal + have + past participle. 'Should of' is how should've sounds, not how it is written.
6. Which sentence is correct in edited English?
C. Please send the file to Anna and me.
Remove Anna: 'send the file to me'. After a preposition you need an object pronoun. Myself is only for reflexive or emphatic use.
7. Choose the correct pronoun: We hired the candidate ___ we believed was the strongest.
A. who
Ignore 'we believed' and test the clause: 'he was the strongest', not 'him was'. The pronoun is a subject, so who.
8. Which sentence follows the convention expected in a formal report?
B. We received fewer applications than last year.
Applications is a plural count noun, so formal writing uses fewer. Less stays standard with amounts such as time and money (less than ten minutes).
9. Yesterday I ___ on the sofa all afternoon.
B. lay
Nothing is being put down, so the verb is lie, whose past tense is lay. Laid is the past of lay (put down); lied means told an untruth.
10. Which sentence has no dangling modifier?
B. After reviewing the data, we rewrote the report.
The opening phrase attaches to the subject that follows. Only in B is the subject (we) the one doing the reviewing.
Reading a draft again rarely catches these, because your eye sees what you meant. Searching does. Use Find (Ctrl+F or ⌘F) for:
- it’s — expand each one to “it is/it has”.
- ’s — is the word possessive, or just a plural?
- of after should, could, would, must, might.
- then — does it follow a comparison?
- and I and myself — remove the other person and reread.
- whom — test it with he/him inside its own clause.
- lay and laid — is something being put down?
- effect — would “influence” fit? Then it should be affect.
A grammar checker catches many of these too, but it will also flag correct sentences such as object who. Use the explanations above to decide.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between affect and effect?
In everyday use, affect is a verb meaning to influence (The delay affected our plans) and effect is a noun meaning a result (The delay had a big effect). Two less common uses break this pattern: effect as a verb means to bring about (The new director effected real change), and affect as a noun is a psychology term for visible emotion. If you can swap in influence, write affect; if you can swap in result, write effect.
Is “who did you invite?” wrong?
No. Using who as an object is normal standard English in speech and most writing. Whom is still expected directly after a preposition (to whom, with whom) and in very formal documents. The mistake careful readers do notice is whom used as a subject, as in “the candidate whom we think will win”, where who is required.
Is “I could care less” wrong?
It is a common informal American idiom with the same meaning as “I couldn’t care less”, and dictionaries such as Cambridge record it. It is not an eggcorn or a grammar error. Because it looks illogical on the page and is unusual in British English, use “I couldn’t care less” in formal writing or when your readers are international.
When can I use less with numbers?
Less is standard with amounts of time, money, distance, weight and age, even though they are written as numbers: less than ten minutes, less than $50, less than 5 km. With other plural count nouns, formal writing expects fewer: fewer employees, fewer errors. Signs such as “10 items or less” are widespread and understood, but an editor would change them in a report.
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